Just wanted to let you guys know that I’m really behind on my inbox by like 20 messages - I’ve been super busy with the end of the semester and work. But I promise I’m getting to all of them - and I don’t delete my asks so keep checking back cause it’ll be there as soon as I can.
Anonymous said: I am 19 years old and recently lost my virginity. I was drunk to the point that I couldn't even walk myself to the bathroom, and had I been sober I would have never consented. What makes it worse is the man I lost my virginity to is married and felt no shame cheating on his wife (he told me so). To top it off he was not nearly as drunk as I was. I feel completely guilty, used, and disgusted with myself. I want to know if what he did to me was rape or if I'm actually a whore. Please help :(
You’re definitely not a whore sweetie. I promise you that. Don’t even let that cross your mind.
But you’re not the disgusting one in this situation. He is. Drunk consent is not consent. It doesn’t work like that. You were taken advantage of and that wasn’t fair. Don’t blame yourself sweetie. When you’re really intoxicated whether it’s alcohol or drugs, you don’t make rational decisions. What happened does not reflect who you are as a person.
If you feel comfortable messaging me off anon, I would love to respond privately - I went through a similar situation two years ago but I don’t feel comfortable going into detail over it publicly
5 days ago
alexandracasey7 said: ONCE YOU GET THIS YOU MUST POST 5 FACTS ABOUT YOURSELF AND SEND THIS TO YOUR 10 FAVOURITE FOLLOWERS :)
Aw cool thanks!
1) I just got back from a hula dancing class
2) I’m named Juliet after my grandma who was in fact named after the play and my puppy’s name is Romeo because I’m corny like that
3) My favorite ice cream is chunky monkey but my go-to is cookie dough
4) I’m Filipina, Irish, Spanish, Italian and Puerto Rican
5) I’m in love with being in love
2 weeks ago
infinityvn said: hey sorry to disturb you but we are a love blog run by a couple and we made this blog especially for people to ask advice about anything they want ! we wont judge and our ask is always open ! if you could please pass it around to your followers that would be great! thankyou for your time xo
Don’t worry about it!
I just followed and everybody should check them out!
3 weeks ago